Part 2
'When I look in my closet, I don't see lack. I see freedom.'
When I reached my 30-pound weight-loss goal, I went shopping
with my daughter but didn’t buy anything. I did try on some jeans and shorts to
try and figure out my size. I was down three sizes, but I wasn’t done yet. I
had just reset my goals and had 10 more pounds to go.
So I continued wearing the smallest of my large clothes as I
had been doing throughout my weight-loss journey. Of course, this meant my
wardrobe had shrunk considerably, but I found that I liked having a lean
wardrobe.
On the first anniversary of my weight-loss journey, Oct. 17,
2013, I had lost 38 pounds and was two pounds shy of my goal. I celebrated by
cleaning out my closet. It was also my birthday month, so I bought two new
outfits in size small. These were the first additions to my closet since I had
started losing weight.
As I began removing all
the clothes that were now too large for me, my thoughts went back to the summer
I had tried to trim down my closet to twelve days of outfits. Now that I had so
few clothes that fit, I could have that closet that I still longed for. Since I
was not working outside the home, I decided to apply a rule of 5’s to my
closet. (For a working wardrobe, I would have a rule of 12’s.) No more than
five skirts, five dresses, five blouses, five pairs of slacks, five jackets,
etc. And one more thing…before I bought and added anything to the closet, it
had to pass the “love test.” I mean, I really had to love whatever I bought. It
wasn’t going to take up space and become lost and forgotten. My wardrobe would
now be like my iTunes playlists. All the songs are loved, not just liked.
Anything I took out to wear would be something loved and special to me.
At first, it was a little difficult to pack away so many
“good clothes” to give away. But as I kept going, it got easier. It took about
three days to clean out my closet. I couldn’t believe how much stuff was
crammed into such a small space. Instead of 12 pairs of pants that I had tried
to have at one point, I counted more than 20 pairs. No wonder, I couldn’t find
anything when I was getting dressed.
When it was done, I had three pairs of pants that I could
wear: two from my new birthday outfits and an additional pair of khakis. While
going through boxes, I found a pair of medium pants that I loved and added
them. I kept four skirts that were size large but smallish with elastic
waistbands. I found three large tops/blouses that were also smallish and with
the two new tops with the birthday outfits, that gave me five tops. I didn’t
have any dresses. I had two jackets that
still worked and they stayed. For my knit shirts, I made this modification to
my rule of 5’s. I would keep five shirts in white with varying sleeve lengths
and up to five in pink. Other colors would share the rule of 5’s.
This rule of 5’s was going well until I got to my hoodies. I
counted eight and loved them all. I have always loved hoodies. Although all of them were size large, they
still fit in a comfortable way. The only
thing to do was keep out five and pack away three. That’s what I did, and that’s still working. I just change out the colors occasionally.
My workout clothes, shorts and everyday tees are kept with
my sleeping clothes in a dresser. I kept
all my large pajamas, because they are comfortable and I love them.
It’s been more than two years now, since I cleaned out my
closet, and it’s still a minimalist closet. I love having just a few clothes.
When I look inside my closet, I don’t see lack. I see freedom. I’ve gradually
taken out more of the large sizes and replaced with small sizes. For the past three winters, I’ve had one dress
and four skirts. I’ve learned to make new outfits with these four skirts, using
different tops and accessories.
Last summer, I had four dresses and five skirts. I never
felt like I was wearing the same clothes over and over. I’m always getting new
ideas for interchanging skirts and tops and accessorizing my dresses. I’m still applying the “love test” when I
shop and before buying anything for my closet.
After reaching my weight-loss goals, I have to say that having a
minimalist closet is another huge achievement for me. For me, maintaining a bare but preferred wardrobe ranks with
maintaining my 40-pound weight loss. I do love living light.
~~~B~~~
